Xiahou Ren wrote:
The thing about Guan Yu, he never did anything outstanding. He may grew a strong army, but ultimately lost everything he had worked for. At the end of the day, the loss he caused far outweigh his deeds. Yet he remained arrogant, overconfident, condescending, and probably a jerk to everybody else, friend and foe alike, just because he's Liu Bei's favorite guy. For me he's like that unemployed deadbeat uncle who drinks on your porch all afternoon and teasing you with sexual jokes. And you'd be scolded by your father if you complain about him. The worst out of five Tiger, Guan Yu is.
Dr. Rafe De Crespigny would disagree with you. When you have the history books saying this about you...
"Guan Yu's power made central China tremble, and King Cao of Wei even
considered shifting the capital from Xu city to avoid his attacks." (To Establish Peace)
That shows that you had talent, his contemporaries from Cao Cao to Lu Meng and many others praised him, calling him ambitious and cunning, having to think up an extremely well-founded strategy to defeat him which relied upon betrayal and a mass amount of guile.
Here was Guan Yu's "arrogant" response when he returned from Fan Castle...
"Guan Yu sent messengers several times to Lü Meng to exchange news, and
Lü Meng treated these men most generously. He took them round the city,
and each household sent word [to their relatives with Guan Yu's army].
Some wrote in their own hand to show it was trustworthy. When Guan Yu's
people went back, they too told their friends what they had seen. So all
knew that their families had come to no harm and that they were actually
treated better than in peacetime. Guan Yu's soldiers became less interested
in fighting." (To Establish Peace)
'By this one stroke, Lü Meng had changed the military strategy of the region. Guan Yu
abandoned his operations at Fan city and Xiangyang and came directly southwards. He
was not followed by Cao Cao's forces, for they preferred to let their two southern enemies
fight things out. It was in fact, possible, despite his disadvantage, that Guan Yu might be
able to drive Lü Meng away, or at least compel another negotiated settlement. He was
faced, however, not only by a military coup, but also by admirable propaganda. " (Generals of the South - The Great Betrayal)
A fully arrogant man would have attacked his enemies as soon as he found out that his lands had been seized, but he sought diplomacy and while this backfired Tremendously it is still worthy that he attempted a peaceful resolution to the situation when he could have attacked, and according to Dr. Crespigny, have still removed Lu Meng from the land.