Ranbir wrote:That's a big step, considering, so good on you for making it.
And oh yeah, ladies have a shit load of messages to get through. I gotta stand out but not put so much effort that it feels wasteful. I've resorted to bizarre poetry now and then.
SunXia wrote:It's been so drilled into us from we are kids that the guy is the active one that even me, who often flouts social norms, and have arguments with my brothers and father when I buy partners a drink, I still can't get over that hump of approaching a guy first.
It's interesting how that is a thing. I am very fortunate because both of my long-term relationships got started from the woman approaching me. I don't have any problems conversing with women but am terrible at "pulling", so it saved my butt.
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