SunXia wrote:Bush Leagues wrote:SunXia wrote:I don't think I would ever try online dating mainly because of the experiences I've had with people pretending to be one thing and definitely being another in real life. I abhor being around liars and people who pretend to be something they are not.
Definitely easier to misrepresent yourself on the internet than real life. But there's no reason to assume people are automatically hiding things either. I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Of course it's no reason to assume this but having to rush through random streets when you aren't well then grab a buddy from a local house to walk you the rest of the way just to make sure someone you met online is not stalking you is not a great feeling in the slightest.
It is so easy to get to know people and to feel like you know them because you don't have the pressure you have in real life. I know I have social issues and dislike people looking at me, I used to be fine with it but I've become more recluse and shy and a lot less open to people due to my experiences.
My online friend is coming to my hometown for a convention so I'm tempted to meet him, especially since he has a girlfriend so won't make me feel awkward or pressured in that way. i would love to Cosplay but I have heard it can get rough for people cosplaying like people touching in large crowds!! Hate being touched!
lcklasman wrote:I feel so bad for the lady cosplayers. As a guy people are always like dude he looks sick or hes awesome but females I know who cosplay get dude look at her huge butt or boobs and then get touchy touchy. It is disgusting and I hate it. Females deserve just as much respect as the males do.
Shozuhn wrote:My Mom tried to talk me into this... but Idk...
I've always kinda gotten the feeling that online dating was for people 40+, and that the chance of finding someone my own age there was unlikely. I've also learned to not trust people that I can even see every day. So the idea of dating online and trying to trust someone I don't technically even know... naw. Not for me.
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