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Unread postby Catalyst » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:04 am

I know exactly how you feel, Zhao_Yun. I'm in roughly the same situation, but I feel a bit more in control of it. I'm probably as shy or worse than you are, so... erm... yeah...

Personally, I'd say the best thing you can do is just find a girl that you like, and try to become her friend (normal friend, not girlfriend). If you spend enough time just talking to them, hanging out, etc. you really won't feel too shy about asking them out. Plus, then you have the added bonus of knowing a bit about them right away, instead of blindly going after someone you don't know anything about!

Of course, actually having somewhere to go is another matter entirely, and not one I can do anything about...
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Unread postby Jedi » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:07 am

Im very shy I cant even talk to this girl :oops: heheheh im so stupid :x

But heres some advise dont argue with a girl you will almost never win :lol:
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Unread postby Jason » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:18 am

Jedi wrote:Im very shy I cant even talk to this girl :oops: heheheh im so stupid :x

But heres some advise dont argue with a girl you will almost never win :lol:



Argue playfully, and lose on purpose (If you even have a choice.) Girls seem to find it cute.
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Unread postby Hizentaru » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:30 am

Ezekiel wrote:
Jedi wrote:Im very shy I cant even talk to this girl :oops: heheheh im so stupid :x

But heres some advise dont argue with a girl you will almost never win :lol:



Argue playfully, and lose on purpose (If you even have a choice.) Girls seem to find it cute.


It is cute. For me, playful arguments are some of the funniest things to do with guys. I don't even mind when I lose. Just make sure you know what line not to cross so you don't piss her off. I know what things to not take to heart, but some people don't.
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Unread postby Jason » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:49 am

Hizentaru, please tell these clowns about how charming I can be with the ladies :lol:
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Unread postby Hizentaru » Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:53 am

Oh heck yes ladies. He's a charmer. heh
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Unread postby Adam » Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:33 am

How much did he pay you to say that?
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Unread postby Hizentaru » Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:45 am

Sympathy.

heh. just kidding.
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Re: Girlfriend

Unread postby Kongming's Prodigy » Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:50 am

Zhao_Yun666 wrote:Umm I'm so shy, but my hormones are acting up and i really want a girlfriend that i can share my love with, any tips on attracting a girl and eventually going out with one. Please offer some feedback for this poor soul who has never had a girlfriend.

1. Confidence
2. Sense of humor
3. Intellect
4. Looks

Try to have all four; if not, act like you do...well, not blatantly. :wink:

If you're not satisfied with the way you look, try a different hairstyle, maybe start/stop shaving, change your wardrobe, etc. It works. Building up the latter three should help you naturally establish number 1.

Listen to Lexus Fiend and Ezekiel. :lol:

Oh, and hormones =/= love. :wink:
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Re: Girlfriend

Unread postby Lexus Fiend » Mon Sep 11, 2006 6:02 am

Kongming's Prodigy wrote:
Zhao_Yun666 wrote:Umm I'm so shy, but my hormones are acting up and i really want a girlfriend that i can share my love with, any tips on attracting a girl and eventually going out with one. Please offer some feedback for this poor soul who has never had a girlfriend.

1. Confidence
2. Sense of humor
3. Intellect
4. Looks

Try to have all four; if not, act like you do...well, not blatantly. :wink:

If you're not satisfied with the way you look, try a different hairstyle, maybe start/stop shaving, change your wardrobe, etc. It works. Building up the latter three should help you naturally establish number 1.

Listen to Lexus Fiend and Ezekiel. :lol:

Oh, and hormones =/= love. :wink:


All of this is true, from your 1-4, to the following comments, that pretty much sums up everything. Your references as to whom to listen to are on-point as well, especially the former :wink:
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