Zhao_Yun666 wrote:Umm I'm so shy, but my hormones are acting up and i really want a girlfriend that i can share my love with, any tips on attracting a girl and eventually going out with one. Please offer some feedback for this poor soul who has never had a girlfriend.
Well, I know what it's like, bro, because I'm 17 and I've only had one girlfriend, but I have dated around, at least a little bit, and it's become easier for me because I realized that, from what I can tell, girls mostly like it if the guy is confident in himself, and that's what I think you should consider.
If you like someone, and you suspect that they may like you, then just very non-chalantly ask them to go out to see a movie or get a bite to eat.(But no where too fancy: you don't want to seem desperate.) And what happens, happens. The key is to not put any pressure on them, and, just remember: don't worry about the response. I know I feel much better every time I ask a girl out, regardless of the conclusion, because I know that I was at least confident enough to ask.
Buuut, if you don't have anyone in mind... well, mingle. Put yourself out there, meet friends' friends. It's honestly not too hard once you get used to it.
I don't know... I hope that helps.
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