Xiao Gui wrote:what exactly is the problem for a child to grow up with different combination of parents?
tao_chi wrote:... What if I were to marry a Chinese guy just because he wanted to be allowed in the country and was willing to pay me 50 K US? I know this already happens (female/male) because it is the only way, but if gay/lesbian marriage becomes lawful it can cause a lot problems and greatly increase frequency. Until the laws can deal with the many loopholes that gay/lesbian marriages can possibly create, it will not be norm in near future.
James wrote:They do not get the chance to function in a normal family.
James wrote: Both the father and mother, their unique factors aside, provide children with different examples, many of which are natural or instinct.
James wrote:It is also important for the child to grow up without a strange situation which society will shun them for; the potential for damage is quite present.
James wrote:Everywhere in nature a certain defined role of parenthood is present and the youth, in relationships that are managed by both parents, learn how to function in normal society.
James wrote:Humanity is no different. It is possible to attack society here and say that the child doesn’t need to have the benefit of growing up in a normal family, but the child may disagree with you.
Sam Da Man wrote:I just see it as being wrong altogether. People weren't meant to have sexual relations with someone who is of the same sex. You don't put things in the outholes and you put things in the inholes. God didn't meant for it to be like that and evolution did not mean for it to be like that.(whichever you choose to follow).
It is a perversion of nature and is not right. I feel it is ok for them to do whatever they want but I don't want them going around flaunting it and influencing people around me.
Xiao Gui wrote:Sam Da Man wrote:I just see it as being wrong altogether. People weren't meant to have sexual relations with someone who is of the same sex. You don't put things in the outholes and you put things in the inholes. God didn't meant for it to be like that and evolution did not mean for it to be like that.(whichever you choose to follow).
It is a perversion of nature and is not right. I feel it is ok for them to do whatever they want but I don't want them going around flaunting it and influencing people around me.
You talk about homosexuality as if itz a disease.
Ah you say God? Then I will respect your opinion. But I find no perversion in homosexuality. People of relgion find it a perversion. Also, I don't find homosexual people flaunting their homosexuality. In fact I find religious people, especially catholicism, going around damning homosexuality to hell and banning children's book. (In fact, they damn many things)
Xiao Gui wrote:Do you concider heterosexual couple normal and homosexual couple abnormal?
Let's discuss this word 'normal': conforming to a standard; regular, usual, and typical. What is normal can change from culture to culture and generations to generations. A long time ago, its normal for women to stay at home and take care of children and it is not normal for women to work. You can say children growing up in an abnormal family like that would have tramatic psychological impact. Should we blame the society for being chauvenicstic or force the mother to not work?
Xiao Gui wrote:I think it is hypocritical for North America, a place where individuality is greatly value, to use the word 'normal' to demoralize anything different from them. To me, nomality is worse than mediocrity.
Xiao Gui wrote:Humans have no instincts. This is a scientifically proven fact. Mothers and fathers have no unique factors besides that one has breast and one as penius. By saying children's perception of the world solely is based on the sex of the parents, you don't give too much room for parenting and education.
Xiao Gui wrote:Again, should have educate the public and stop banning children's book that depict same sex marriage. (oh you didn't know they do that? Every province and states ban children's book that depicts samesex parents due to pressures from the religious parents, except for BC)
Xiao Gui wrote:Again what is nature? What is natural? Humans are far from that. It is not natural what we drink coke. and do not limited parents ability to educate their children to mere their sex. I personally knows three brothers raised by two father. They turn out more than just fine (and good looking).
Xiao Gui wrote:If you are concerned that children would come home oneday crying that everybody has one mother and one father but I have two dadies, I believe the parents of this child would have educate their children on this issue and the school should also bring in materials to educate other children. Do not blame society's problems on the poor same sex couples.
Taishi Ci wrote:I hide behind nothing. I said more "power to ya" as long as you don't claim to be a Christian. If you do, you are just slapping God in the face in blatant defiance.
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